“I'm ecstatic to tell you that I'm a six year veteran now. Of
what you might ask? A successful kidney transplant. Believe me it wasn't
something I thought I'd ever take part in, no less at the age of 21.
A clean bill of health all years prior, just so happened a common virus
turned bad, life threatening bad. Never admitted in the hospital before,
never feeling so sick either. I found myself in the ER and diagnosed
with severe renal failure. Immediate dialysis was needed in order to
live. My life now in the hands of doctors, medications, machines and
lets not forget about God. My kidneys never regained function. I was
dependent on hemodialysis for the next 15 months to kept me alive.
I physically wasn't able to live the energetic
life I had once been living before. When my nephrologist told me
I would be a perfect candidate for a transplant, my life would change
yet again. After many discussions with my family, research and referrals
from doctors, and nurses we arranged the first meeting at the hospital.
Multiple questions and information was exchanged by all, in a very
personable and caring manner. It was clear after our meeting this
was the team that wanted to make my second chance at life possible,
and in return we wanted under our care. With three of my family members
all tested, my dad was the best match. The details of our heath care,
operation and recovery was covered. A transplant date was selected.
On November 5, 1997 my life along with my dad's was in the hands
of two teams of surgeons, machines, medications and that's right
God too. On that day, I was given the ultimate gift, a new lease
on life. My dad's kidney started working like a charm, in it's new
home inside me. There isn't a day go by that I don't appreciate the
life that I'm living now. Thanks to transplantation and the continuous
care, love, and support from my family, friends and medical family.
These last six years I've been able to accomplish more than I ever
thought possible. My dreams have become a reality, with my future
full of endless possibilities”. date: 11/5/97
Laurie Scheer
Living Donor Transplant from her dad
Transplant date 11/5/97
Laurie has participated in the Transplant Games every 2 years since transplant
and has received multiple gold medals (and others) for her participation in
the games.
IHello,
my name is Fred. I had a kidney transplant in November of 1994.
Eight years earlier, at the height of health in my life, I
was diagnosed
with a renal problem that was supposed to take 20 years or
so to
deteriorate to the point of transplant. In September of 1994
my renal
function was around eight percent. At that point I was a deputy
sheriff
with a wife and two children. The staff at Clarkson Hospital
did an
excellent job laying out my options. My wife and I decided
on transplant.
We informed our families about our decision and left my medical
records
open to them. One of them stepped up immediately and researched
the
problem along with the possibility of being a donor. Less than
two
months went by. We were matched and decided on the first available
date for surgery. It happened to be November 9th, the day between
my mother and father's birthdays. Now they send me a card on
that
day, my re-birthday. Two lives were saved that day, mine and
my father's.
You see when he underwent pre-surgery testing they found an
aneurysm
on his renal artery. During the transplant, doctors were able
to harvest
his kidney and take care of the aneurysm. Along with two lives
being saved
a third was created. My new kidney cleaned up my system so
well that
we were finally, after eight years of trying, able to conceive
our third child.
I was back on the job sixty days after the transplant working
road patrol
division. I am still a deputy sheriff and can perform all of
my duties.
I have never been on any "light" or "special" duty
as a result of our
decision to have a transplant. I do have one problem.
It's hard to shop for my father on father's day or his birthday
or
whatever....I mean, what am I supposed to get the man who gave
me life TWICE?
Fred Bishop
Kidney transplant recipient
November 1994
I had a kidney transplant a year
and a half ago. My loving wife was my donor. I remember during
prescreening she said
to the doctor, “If only I could give my husband one of
my kidneys.” To our amazement, we were a match – true
love.
I am still under the watchful eye
of the physicians who have performed this miracle. I remember
well the transition from
kidney failure to dialysis to transplant and all of the help
and support I received along the way. Simply put, it’s
difficult to describe how wonderful it is to have my life back,
freedom, so to speak.
To all concerned, my wife, doctors and nurses, thanks for
your professionalism and support. God Bless!
Jim
Living donor transplant recipient
August 2002
When people learned that I was going to
give my husband Jim one of my kidneys, they would comment on
how noble and wonderful
I was. The truth is, it was the best gift I could give myself.
When someone you love is sick, we so often say, “If
there was just something I could do . . .” Here was
my opportunity. I think of it like Christmas morning. You
have bought the absolute perfect gift for your loved one.
You eagerly anticipate his delight as he opens it. Giving
my husband a kidney was something like that feeling, only
100 times better. Over a year later, I see how my husband’s health has
improved and how he is no longer tied to a dialysis machine.
It was truly the best gift I could ever give – the give
of health. I am in awe and so grateful to The Nebraska Medical
Center for our miracle.
Cindy
Living kidney donor
In Their Own
Words: Stories of Transplant Recipients The following interviews were conducted in
June, 2004 at The Nebraska Medical Center. Some interviewees were
at the hospital for their annual checkups, some were just out of
surgery and others are employees of the Medical Center. Angela and Melissa Thomas
Mother donated kidney to daughter, June 2004
Omaha, Nebraska residents In mother Angela’s words:
We first knew Melissa was sick about five years ago. She kept putting
on water weight—she would blow up like a balloon—and then
lose the weight. Finally, we were on vacation in Dallas in 2000 when
she went into kidney failure. That’s when we found out she had
lupus. In fact, she has the worst kind of lupus, the kind that attacks
your organs. They started chemotherapy right away. It went into remission
almost immediately, but they continued an 18-month course of chemotherapy. Then, Melissa got pregnant with my wonderful
grandson. That was a high risk pregnancy, given her condition,
and totally accelerated her losing her kidney function. In December
2003, Melissa’s doctors told us she had to go on the transplant
list, and she would need to start dialysis soon. That’s when
I decided to donate my kidney. It really was a no-brainer. Both
of us have Type O blood, and I just couldn’t let her suffer.
I do have two other children, Dylan and Jamie, and we talked about
my decision to donate my kidney to Melissa. They felt that if there
was anything I could do to help their “sissy”, they
were OK with it. Fortunately, I do have insurance and my insurer
has a donor program that picks up all the expenses associated with
organ donation. I think most insurers have donor programs. In Melissa’s
case, she was already on Medicare and Medicaid, since she was both
disabled and poor. Being a donor takes some time—I will
need to take at least four to six weeks off from work and I can’t
drive for a month. There are really no follow-up medications that
are out of the ordinary post-operative standard. I think there
is no reason not to help family or a friend who needs an organ—I’m
an organ donor on my license and I like to believe that I practice
what I preach. My kidney started working for Melissa right away,
and that was wonderful. And you know, you can actually live off
just one quarter of your kidney. In fact, the rheumatologist said
that sometimes when a person donates a kidney, the other kidney
increases in size to compensate. Isn’t that amazing? In daughter Melissa’s words:
My mom is a hero in my eyes. I know that mothers will do anything for
their kids, but I did try to talk her out of donating, since if anything
happened to me, I knew she was the person who would be taking care
of my son. Even though I just got my kidney yesterday,
I can see a difference already. First of all, I’m flushed—a
real switch, since I was very anemic. And my energy has picked
up. And I’m going home! The first thing I’m going to
do is hug my son. I did find out something very interesting
that I think people should know. If you donate a kidney, and
for some reason, your other kidney fails, you go straight to
the top of the transplant list because you’ve risked your
life for someone else. I think people should be aware of that
since it might influence their decision be an organ donor. Cathy Westman
Currently foster parent to three transplant children
Omaha, Nebraska resident My husband and I started fostering children
who needed transplants about ten years ago. In that time, we’ve
fostered a total of eight children in need of transplant. Our first child was Shante, who we have now
adopted. We got her straight out of the hospital when she was four
and a half months old. She’s had two transplants since she’s
been with us—a small intestine when she was two and a half,
which her body rejected and another at age four, which her body
rejected. She may need another. But she’s very healthy right
now and her system is working really well, so we’re not worrying
for the moment. You don’t think of little children needing
transplants, but once they do their lives take off. These children
are such survivors. Take Victoria, for example. She’s 18
months old and in February had a liver/small bowel/pancreas transplant.
That was a ten-hour surgery and she’s doing remarkably well.
She’s learned to sit up. You can just tell she feels better.
Our third current foster child is Natasha. She’s from Texas
and is waiting for a liver/small bowel transplant. She’s
a little jaundiced now, but overall, she’ll be ready when
we hear that there is an organ for her. I believe the Nebraska Medical Center is really
committed to helping children. For my kids, going to the hospital
is like coming home. The staff is remarkably caring—you get
to know them and they get to know you. It’s wonderful that
these children are given a second chance at life—and the
Medical Center works to assure that it is a good quality of life
they are getting. My husband and I thought long and hard about
doing this, since we’ll be in our 70’s by the time
this second round of children is grown—our own children are
grown and live in the area. For us, it’s a lifelong thing.
These children need a sense of permanency and normalcy. Our kids
go to school, museums and the zoo. The equipment they need is small
and portable, so we can go on vacations. The kids come with us
everywhere.
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